He has a running list of shows and movies that he thinks that you'll like and he's right. Some couples are incredibly lucky enough to feel like they have known each other for longer than they have. Putting meaning into everything Our minds can really complicate our lives when we overthink about everything. Tell him how much you have enjoyed your alone time, and that you would love to begin going on regular dates. He knows all of this and lets you know that he does because he has feelings for you. When you like someone it feels couple-y to do things like go out to eat or even go shopping.
Then one night, you go out to dinner or drinks with your friend and his ex-girlfriend who is now your girl. People who have feelings usually make more eye contact of the extended variety. That means that you both only have platonic feelings for each other. This might not be as overt as him talking about your future children although he might joke about it. But your mutual friends or other people who see you guys interacting might see it plain as day since they don't have any reason not to.
He pays attention to what makes you laugh and can anticipate why you'll like something or you won't. We would all do this for our friends. You can't blame the alcohol when she laughs in your face and tells you that you must be kidding. Anyone applying these concepts to a life situation assumes sole responsibility for the results of doing so. Maybe your girl is just jealous because you spend a good amount of time with your girl best friend too.
Sometimes it's totally one sided but more often than not both people are carrying some residual feelings. Or maybe it's the way he talks about you or how happy he looks when he gets home from hanging out with you. By: Contributor Having a crush on your best friend can be a complicated situation. He'll roll his eyes when you mention anything good about someone, and he'll also roll his eyes when you say anything that could be taken in a questionable way. On one hand, friends often make the best partners, as you already know and trust one another. She knows and she doesn't like it.
This goes way beyond friend behavior, this is boyfriend behavior. Begin with little things, like hiking, dinner for the two of you or simply coffee and great conversation. Do you really want to do that to your best friend? Friends are casual about hanging out. This is an important thing to note. She knows what it means when you're biting your nails and clenching your jaw- there's something important on your mind.
When your best friend does, he'd actually prefer to be your boyfriend. That is for your benefit as well as hers; if you change your attitude to a negative one towards her or him, it will make you look bad. Your girl will never get a warm welcome from her. Now jump about 7 years forward and today I as well as my friend Tim have been with a bunch of other women. She can never be friends with your girl.
If he talks to you as frequently as your boyfriend would he probably secretly wants you. There's a part of him that wants to be on his best behavior for you. Saying why the girl is not good enough for you should be okay, we all want the best for our friends. Seeing the two of you together will just hurt her. They will tease the heck out of you.
Try talking it out with your friend, especially if they knew you liked the person. The part that makes teasing happen is when you guys surround yourselves with the same circle of friends and within that circle of friends, you guys are the closest. Also we were flirting with each other for a while, and its clear we had a connection, but now my friend went behind my back and knew how I felt, I no longer consider this person my friend and I am willing to do anything to be with this girl. Do yourself a favor and just let things be. I really like this girl, actually love, who is a good friend of mine. Every good girl best friend should be happy for you for finding someone who makes you happy.
Or at least let you handle your own drama while staying out of the way. He knows it, and listens to it, and kinda likes it. Find out if he likes to be with you. For me, I started to picture myself asking her out on a date or how happy we would be if we did end up together. Don't take out your frustrations by befriending him for it. That's it, you've fallen for your best friend hook, line and sinker but is this relationship feasible? It might be the amount of time he spends with you or talks to you on the phone.